How to understand what your crush secretly feels? In addition to the ability to express our thoughts through speech, we have a non-verbal expression of emotions - this is the language of gestures, attitudes, facial expressions. People are not able to control all non-verbal emotions, so in order to find out the true feelings of a person, you can learn to read these signs yourself.
Body Language Signs of Attraction: What Are They?
Most body language signs of attraction are known to everyone. Representatives of the female gender use the same gestures, preening themselves. And men use the same: fix clothes, touch their hair, look into eyes longer than usual. Girls, as well as the representatives of the male sex, use such a gesture as hiding their thumbs. However, they do that more gracefully - they hide a finger in a pocket, a handbag. Signs of excitement are a blush on the cheeks, enlarged pupils. Nonetheless, let’s consider the nonverbal signs in more detail.
Finding the Truth in Your Eyes
To figure out whether a person sympathizes you or not, you need to carefully search for the truth in their eyes. A person's eyes are one of the most important body language signs of falling in love. There are hidden and explicit forms of showing interest. If a person openly shows sympathy, then respect is noticeable in their eyes. The stronger your sympathy is, the more your pupils dilate. People use the hidden manifestation of sympathy if they are afraid of disappointment, deception. But, despite the fear, they are trying to somehow contact you, observe or watch. Hidden sympathetic glance is different: a person looks at an interesting person out of the tail of their eye in order not to be noticed. If eyes meet, a person immediately looks away. The looks of representatives of different sexes are very different. Women are more resourceful. They are the ones who know how to give someone the eye and play 'who blinks first' game.
Visual Sign Language of Men
To understand the visual sign language of men and to notice interest, it is important to note the direction of gaze which is one of the signs he secretly likes your body language. The one who is interested in you is looking down. First, the man notes the overall attractiveness, then lowers his eyes below, holds his gaze on the chest and hips, and after a while, looks at them again. If a certain representative of the male gender shows sympathy, then this is evident from the frequency of glances and pupil dilation.
Women's Visual Sign Language
However, for women, visual sign language is different. If a woman makes eye contact with a man she likes, she often looks like a thief who was caught. She hides her eyes and blushes. Women prefer to look at the object of sympathy secretly. But experienced women behave more confidently. They are also embarrassed, but after averting their eyes, they return their gaze, accompanying it with a smile. In contrast to men, ladies inspect the handsome man from the bottom up. This direction has a double meaning. Initially, the girl worked up the courage before looking into man’s eyes.
Signs She Likes You: Body Language
When you first meet a girl, you know nothing about her, including her character and temperament. Moreover, you don't even know if she likes you or she talks to you out of courtesy. The technique of recognition of hidden female body language signs can come to the aid. Sometimes, girls don't even realize that their gestures and flirty body language signs hint that the guy is cute. Body Language Signs She Likes You.
If she likes you, she changes her behavior. The easiest way to notice that is to look at the posture. She straightens her back, realizing that she will look more attractive in your eyes. She starts talking more energetically and enthusiastically. In general, if her position changes, it may mean that she is ready for your acquaintance.
As well as with the posture, the girl can change the position in which she sits. If earlier she was eating, drinking coffee or talking to her friend, now she wants to draw your attention to herself. How does she do it in a non-verbal way? She can take an attractive pose, which shouts, "Look at me, I'm here." It will be very important for you to notice this change and decipher it.
2. She Barely Exposes the Body
That’s the second most popular sign among flirting body language signs. The girl will gently and slowly push aside the edges of her dress, blouse or T-shirt with her hand as if she has suddenly felt too hot or something has disturbed her. Besides, she can be so keen on conversation or correspondence that she does not even notice how she does it. For you, this is a very good sign. Due to it, you can understand that you attract her as a man. And in return, she seeks to show women's attractiveness.
She can sit and unpretentiously play with her shoes, remove them, and then easily hold on her foot. Such a signal, of course, will be much more difficult to notice. But you can sometimes glance at her feet. If you have noticed this game, then do not slow down, but immediately proceed to action. Sit down at her table and start small talk.
3. She Wants to Be Closer
When you have already met, the girl will also give certain signals. If she wants to sit closer to you, then she is pleased to be in your company. You must support her in this endeavor and shorten the remaining distance between you. Usually, there is a personal space between strangers, which it is desirable not to disturb. If a girl wants to put some of her own things into your personal space, she shows sympathy. You have to show that you like what she is doing. And her action does not bother you at all.
A girl can accidentally touch your arm, back, or another part of the body while pretending that this has happened by accident. Naturally, these touches are rarely random. She shows you her interest and desire to know you hereafter. Do not focus on this, so as not to embarrass the girl. However, you should note that it is time to move into a more active phase of the offensive.
Signs He’s into You: Body Language
At the subconscious level, the male body language signs of attraction are expressed as follows. At first, he tries to attract the attention of the girl he likes by simply preening himself. This is a natural instinct. The guy will begin to fix his hair and tie as well as a collar or a jacket. This movement occurs at the subconscious level, even when a person tries to hide their feelings. Besides, among body language signs he’s falling for you is the following: representatives of the male sex often hide their thumbs behind the belt. Even if a man stands and talks to a pretty lady, the toe of his foot is certainly turned in her direction. Often, when talking to pretty women, men put their hands in their pockets, leaving their thumbs outside. This is an obvious sign that your personality is interesting to a man, and he tries to make a good impression.
Body Language Signs He Likes You
The desire to be liked causes a lot of unconscious movements: a man fixes his tie or collar, flicks away non-existent specks of dust from clothes, smooths down his hair. Where does such attention to his appearance come from? Of course, the root cause is a beautiful lady.
If a man is in love, he tries to show the object of sympathy all his “power” and “strength,” which he has by nature. He stands, straightening his shoulders as if trying to demonstrate the width of his back. Often, he keeps his hands on his hips and spreads his legs widely as if showing his physical attributes. When talking, he turns to her beloved girl with the whole body and listens very attentively to what she is saying.
3. Body and Foot Position
How does a man behave if he likes a woman, but he hides that? This "symptom of love" particularly comes out in big companies: a man takes the position in which his body will be turned toward the side of the object of his attention. Such a turn is not always possible, but the thoughts of “Romeo” are easy to discern, drawing attention to the socks of the shoes: they are always turned in the direction of the woman a man likes.
4. Brow Lift
Communication with a beloved woman in secret is a stressful situation. No matter how much a suitor tries to hide his excitement, he is unlikely to control the movement of his eyebrows. If a man raises them a little, you can be sure that he is currently far from indifference.
5. Reducing the Distance and "Random" Touch
How to understand that a man is in love when he hides his feelings? Especially, if you spend a lot of time nearby, for example, in an educational institution or at work. Among men's body language sure signs of attraction, we can highlight the following: while talking, he will try to violate the boundaries of your personal space, that is, the distance of an outstretched hand. As a rule, people do not let strangers approach them so closely even during a conversation, but if sympathy is mutual, you may not feel an inner protest when a man approaches you. Do not be surprised if he casually touches your arm, shoulders, hair, puts his hand on the back of your chair. The desire for tactile contacts is a clear confirmation that a man is pleased to be with you, and that he dreams of rapprochement. If the representative of the stronger sex covers your shoulders with a jacket, this is not a courtesy: your attendant makes it clear to his opponents that he considers you "his" and does not intend to give you to others.
Body Language Signs He Is Jealous
All men are jealous. There is no representative of the male gender who is not familiar with this feeling. Some react violently, others diligently hide what they consider shameful and unworthy. But you can safely challenge the statement of a woman who proves that it is her husband who is free from this vice. A man is not jealous only in two cases: either you don’t give the slightest excuse for jealousy, or the fate of your relationship is of no concern to him.
If a man always stares at you, there is a possibility he likes you because eye contact is one of the signs that a person feels sympathy. An intent look is also a sign that he is attracted to your body language. Wishing to figure out whether you like him as well, a man may also try to watch your gestures, mimic, and movements, especially in the moments when he is jealous. If you talk to another guy who is just a friend of yours and the man who likes you watches the whole conversation, paying attention to your gestures and emotions, be sure that he is jealous.
If you see that a man, watching you, clenches his hands into a fist or starts biting his lips, and his movements become sharp, this is also a sign of jealousy. The deal is that he becomes cross seeing that you pay attention to someone else, and his body starts showing it subconsciously.
Nonetheless, we know that guys don’t want to show their feelings quite often. So most likely, he will try to hide his jealousy. When a man wants to cope with strong emotions, he puts his hands behind his back, while squeezing them strongly. Another posture, which symbolizes the desire for self-control is “arms on the armrests." Such a pose can be observed while waiting for a reception to the dentist, for instance. In such moments, people want to cope with very strong emotions.