I realized a lot after my divorce. I knew what I wanted and would give out of romance and women in my life. I want girls much younger. I knew myself better and will not sacrifice basic needs and desires I have.

Younger girls are a huge attraction to me, petite, sexy, highly sexual, smart, funny, likes older men, high sex drive, open, honest, faithful… Eastern European girls for my highest attraction – uniquely sexy.

I found relationships of myself with younger girls gave girls what they want and need – they fulfill what I want and need. Girls that want someone older, experienced, serious, established, sexy, honest, faithful, open, and more.

I made four “romance tours” to Ukraine hosted by online dating sites. Some would be in the presence of 700 young unmarried girls an evening. It was overkill and not conducive to a long and serious relationship.

My trips were always to Ukraine – Odessa, Donetsk, Mariupol, Nikolaev, Lugansk – two to six weeks. Met girls I had been in touch with – met girls I never knew until these tours. Were activities every day – take your girl – do your own thing.

Those trips, those girls re-enforced my desire and want out of life when it comes to a girl in my life. In 2017, after my divorce, I wanted to turn my life upside down – I needed a drastic change. I found that change when I moved to Odessa – lived in Odessa for 10 months.

I meet girls in real life girls I had been in touch with remotely. Lots of dates. Along the way I was introduced and met many other girls. All younger and I had a friend who lived there and a lady who was my guide and translator at some meetings.

I left Ukraine and came back to the states. I kept up and to this day keep up my active membership here. Relations take time and energy – but have wonderful resorts. But some just want money, gifts, not serious as they would not meet in real life.

I know what I can give a girl – what I want and expect, need from her. I want a young sexual, pretty, fun, wild, experienced or not. I want her to match my sexual desires – fulfill them – enjoy what I give her.

I want to get to know, love, fulfill a girl from her inside – her mind – ambitions – accomplishments – attracted to her inner world is huge.

Match my body desires…humans are very visual creatures. Would say males even more so than females. See a girl in real life – pics from her profile. What do you notice first? Her appearance, naturally stands out.

I read girl’s letters and profiles. I favor girls that write me first – know that girl has an interest in me. Visually and mentally with pics, profile, stats and letters I determine girls that match what I was looking for in a mate.

Letters that are not ones sent the same day or close together that feature the same pics and words.  Not ones that did not at least tailor their letters to me by including my name in the letter. Some one can tell are sent en masse – with variables not done right to substitute names – worse addressed to someone else.

I want my girl to excite my eyes, brain, and body. I have only serious intentions. I am very forthright in what I want and what I have to offer a girl. How we match, mental compatibility, sexual compatibility.

I really found myself sexually after my divorce. I know what I want sexually and what makes me happy. I don’t settle any longer. Yet, I am NOT holding out for some ‘ideal match’ girl – there are always gives and takes of what one wants – what she wants – what I offer – what she offers.

I am blatantly honest about sex: high sex drive, fantasies, sex toys, costumes, bondage, pics, videos, public sex, positions, Kama Sutra, BDSM, sex akin to popular movies, watch movies…I have no taboos…need to ask each other anything and always get an honest answer – topics do not solely include sex.

All kinds of dates I seek with her in real life: shopping, cooking a meal together, movie, snuggle and watch a movie, dinner out, vacation…

Public affection is important to me – I have no fear of kissing her in public, holding her hand, my arm around her waist – I will do all of those and more no matter who is around – I am proud of my girl and my relationship with her.

I like her to wear sexy clothes. She wears those for me. She likes the attention of acts and words I give her – I notice her – what is hot.

I have learned to be a great listener, sometimes girls just want to vent out to a girlfriend or her man – not seeking her man to solve or fix everything all of the time. Sometimes just be an active listener. Sometimes giving opinions or active help – if that is was is called for.

I might read a girl’s letter, profile, review pics. It can be very fruitful and telling if I send her a letter that describes my sexual appetite – what I like about her body, mind, sexual turn ons – I might write those back to a girl in detail.

It can really turn on a girl – she gets to know what I want – what I like. I find out if she likes what I have to offer and is willing to provide what I need. I want a relationship that is two-sided – I don’t want to be the only one giving – I want to make sure my girl gives to me as I give to her. She might return the favor visually to me.

Giving her mind and body what turns her on – words and pics – pursue her to meet her in real life and do whatever we have discussed in letters and such – in real life – together. Compliment her routinely – notice and thank her for working hard at the gym to keep her body in the sexy shape for me and her.

Notice and like sexy lingerie she wears. How she undresses or asks me to undress her. From sex that is loud and hard – lots of emotions – lots of oxytocin and adrenaline – loud hard sex. Spank her, pull her hair, fuck her deep, eat her pussy, get her to squirt, get her to cum from my dick and fingers, ensure she orgasms and has pleasure – just as she and her body give me orgasms and pleasure.

Fantasies and costumes include: stewardess, slave, maid, schoolgirl, nanny, hitchhiker, farmer’s daughter, nurse, spy, pizza delivery guy, landlord, handyman, neighbor, teacher, boss, job interview, secretary, real estate agent, harem girl, escort, hooker, erotic pics and/or erotic video girl is interviewing for or doing…

Passionate soft gentle sex full of kisses, affectionate words and actions, hugs, touching, slow, take time, foreplay, spending time cuddling and talk after sex – not rush off. A quickie is what might be what’s possible time to time – do it!

Public sex includes: car, hallway, restroom, alley, room with door ajar, against open window, stairs, elevator, pool, jacuzzi, sauna, beach, ocean, sea… Not knowing whether or not we might get seen or heard – but that is a lot of the thrill – if seen, is added thrill – what do we do – what do watchers do?

Have I done all of the above I have written? No, some yes, by putting them out there you understand me better. Will you give me what I want and need and desire?  Do I give you what you want, need and desire?

If so, write, send pics – check first with words and move to real life!