As a child I learned many life lessons from my parents. I also learned many more lessons from my grandparents. 

My dad always said that you have to work hard for everything that you get in life that nothing is given to you. This is a true statement because if you do not work hard to get the things that you want no one will give them to you. 

This also goes for relationships. If you do not work at a relationship you will never have one. A lady isn't going to give you a relationship. 

Life has a lot of challenges that each of us goes through and I believe that is for a reason that God has given us. I grew up with the believe in God and his Word to his children which is all of us.

My mother taught me about having relationships with women and how to treat women with respect and not to be one who forces things like sex with a women but this will happen when the women is ready for this action in the relationship.

Many ladies I have known seem to like men who treat them badly and if a men who is good to them they seem to not want to have anything to do with them. 

I was married twice before and both times my wife cheated on me with other men. 

Since I have been divorced I have been wanting to find the woman who wants a good relationship with a man who will be there for them and who wants a life together that is full of love for each other. 

Many life lessons are learned from each relationship that we have. 

Some good and some are bad. We all want a great relationship with who we see as our soul mate.