2023/Ted

Dating in younger years

Ah, how things have changed over the years. Dating in the 60's, thru the 90's was far better and easier than today. Despite me doing everything properly, my results in finding a date was terrible. I see and read the differences between woman in Ukraine and women in different parts of the world, verses women in America. Many women in different parts of the world, like Ukraine. wants a man who is kind and gentle to her. She is not concerned of his looks or age difference. But the question is, why does a woman in America only goes for the looks? She should allow any man who approaches her, she should allow him to introduce himself and to get to him before making a decision solely based upon his looks. A man who doesn't have looks makes it up in his character. And the most important characteristic is he would be loyal to her and would not cheat on her.  I don't feel any pity or remorse that a beautiful woman got dumped or she got cheated on by the so-called hunk. All men regardless of his looks or age, deserves to have a beautiful woman that he can love and spend time with.  She must give him the opportunity to prove his loyalty to her. 

Unfortunately, in today's modern world, this continues to happen every day and will continue until something changes in how men and women will get to know to each, not solely based upon looks only. 

Comments (100)

Diana, 19

19 Dec 2025

You've captured the essence of modern relationships and how dating priorities are changing. Indeed, many people focus too much on appearance, forgetting the value of character, loyalty, and sincerity. Your understanding that true intimacy is built on trust and consideration for each other, not just on appearance, is profound. It's important to give each person the chance to showcase their best qualities, rather than judging them solely by appearance or age. If more people value sincerity and loyalty, the dating world will become much kinder and warmer. 
Diana, 26

16 Dec 2025

Offers interesting social commentary. Your observations about dating customs and loyalty are honest and give insight into cultural differences. 
Yuliia, 21

17 Sep 2024

I think the dating world has really changed, and it reflects both cultural differences and how society is evolving. 
Anna, 21

20 Mar 2024

I agree with you that you need to love a man not only because of his appearance, you also need to look at his character, caring and many other criteria, so I can always talk to you  
Olha, 21

16 Feb 2024

First, we love for the appearance, and then we fall in love with the soul and character of a person 
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