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A pondering thought

There are many ways to fall in love these days, and as days go by, I fear this feeling of love is harder to ascertain. Some people say that love are the memories that we create and share with each other.

I say this with a single thought, can long distance love exist? It may seem difficult for vivid memories to be created when a person is not present at the moment. I did have a long distance relationship, someone I held dear to during my troubled times. Sometimes that support is important but unfortunately it didn't last. Such a breakup left me with anyone for a long time and I've come back again. But I wanted to ask, in this age of connectivity. How can love survive to tell the tale?

It is true, that many people focus on different aspects in their lives. Either their career, maybe even their family (bless they are well), but knowing that a person is a good fit is just as hard as landing a good job, maybe even harder!

It feels as though, there is pressure to get it right! Finding a match is difficult, everyone understands that. If you don't enjoy your job, you may leave when your contract expires, but there is no escape when you made such a decision with your partner! You man up and deal with the consequences. Which comes back to my question, how can love survive to tell the tale?

Please share with me experiences that people have had, because at such a young age, so much can go wrong :(

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Comments (110)

Diana, 26

16 Dec 2025

Thoughtful reflection on long-distance love and human connection. You ask meaningful questions and express vulnerability, which makes the piece relatable and sincere. 
Khrystyna, 22

24 Jul 2025

So, the search for a good kitchen is more expensive, it is equal to hope, rejuvenation, and sometimes disappointment. This is not just a search for an ideal person, but rather a process of self-knowledge, understanding of one’s needs, values and readiness to give. 
Yuliia, 21

17 Sep 2024

What do you think is most important for a long distance relationship like this to survive? 
Olha, 21

15 Feb 2024

Love is a very strong and incomprehensible feeling, but love leaves us beautiful memories and can bring happiness. But at the same time, love can bring the pain of disappointment and leave bad memories. I had long distance relationships and in this situation these relationships left bad memories  
Alina, 21

22 Jan 2024

To be honest, I've been communicating with different people on different sites since I was a kid, some of them we managed to keep in touch with for not very long. We got to know each other, the smallest things. But if we were not interested in each other, such relationships ended quickly. In general, what matters here is how much you are interested in each other, how much you like each other. I've been in touch with one person for three years. I am sure you can find an interesting person, and you can meet in real life). 
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