I've been quite quiet on here recently...and there is a good reason for this. I've met the one :-)

...or at least, I hope she's the one )))

After a painful process when I often felt this opportunity would escape me, I met Lyudmila "Milly". She has been trapped in Ukraine, looking for a partner herself. Likewise, she thought she had met an Italian, but his promises were without foundation and it was by chance we spoke. Both of us, wondering how to find a genuine person...and this communication helped me find her.

Quickly we agreed to meet, I flew to Warsaw with trepidation...wondering if she would arrive and if I was moving too fast. I arrived in Warsaw early and took at room at Nobu. I wanted to make sure I would be comfortable if she didn't arrive...but arrive she did and wow, she looked incredible. We had spoken on camera, so it wasn't a complete shock, but in person, she was so much more beautiful.

We hugged and kissed...with nothing uncomfortable. It was as if she was made for me. I took her case and gave her my arm and the roses I brought for her. She smiled and laughed as we walked and I was immediately captivated. 

At the hotel, I explained that I had made dinner reservations and that we could maybe go for a walk if she wished. Instead, she walked to me, kissed me and told me she wanted to stay in the room. We spent the afternoon in bed. It was as if we had known each other for years. We shared all our secrets and stories. I answered every question and by the evening, I felt that Milly knew more about me than even my parents )))

We ordered room service, when the food arrived, she put on a gown and answered the door. The waiter almost dropped the food when he saw her )))

We ate with gusto, having built a huge hunger and toasted our new relationship with champagne and fresh fruit. 

We made love again that evening and she fell asleep in my arms, while I looked at some papers. I felt very happy and realised how my life will change.

The following day, we decided to leave the room. I took her to see different sites and we walked through the city, holding hands and kissing often. She was radiant in a summer dress, although the heat was affecting me. We stopped for drinks and lunch. Everything felt so natural. As we walked past the stores, I decided to break one of my rules. I was going to buy her some jewellery. Usually I'm cautious, but I trusted Milly. We stopped at a store and I saw a beautiful necklace, with a heart and diamond insert. She looked at me as if I was insane and refused to allow me to buy her such an expensive gift. We agreed, I would buy this...but keep this until she arrived in England. I loved her attitude and confidence...I was certain she was the girl for me.

We visited a few more stores...and despite her refusals, I bought her a dress, shoes and handbag...telling her that this would make me happy. She looked incredible in the red dress, the satin clinging to her incredible body.

She blushed when I made her compliments and kissed me to shut me up )))

We left the shops and returned to the hotel. I needed to shower and she joined me...thanking me for an incredible day. We made love again in the shower and lay on the bed while we relaxed. She looked upset and I asked her what was wrong. She told me that this felt like a dream, a fairy tale...she was waiting to wake up and realise I wasn't this perfect man. I lent towards her and kissed her...and said, "is that not real"...she laughed and we chatted and joked with each other.

That evening, I dressed first and agreed to meet her in the hotel bar. Leaving her to prepare. She arrived at the bar and it felt like the room stopped to greet her. I could see everybody stop and stare, she was amazing. She saw me and walked towards me smiling. The barman couldn't stop himself and made a comment...he realised she was with me and immediately apologised...I laughed and told him I thought the same as him )))

As she sat next to me, I lifted the necklace from my pocket. I looked at her and told her that I wanted her to wear it now. I had made my decision...and if she would accept me, I wanted her to come to England as soon as a visa could be arranged. She kissed me and with tears in her eyes, she agreed. She told me that she couldn't imagine her life without me...and told me she loved me.

We had a drink and then went for sushi. We drank sake and enjoyed the incredible food...but for me, everything was poor in comparison with her. I was in love...I couldn't believe it...but I knew this was real.

After an incredible 5 days together...we had to say goodbye...but not farewell. I decided that Milly was the girl for me. As I walked her to the train...she kept asking when we could next speak, next meet. She had all these questions about the visa and coming to England. I stopped her and looked into her eyes, she seemed afraid to look at me. I put her hand on my heart and told her that this was now hers and she was coming to England.

As she left on the train...she sent me a message. She had put the necklace in my bag...just in case I changed my mind. I sent her a response...telling her I would keep this for her. 

Anyway...today, I'm back in Warsaw and Milly is with me. Only this time, she won't be returning to Ukraine. She has her visa and we fly this evening back to England. I won't need this site...or any site, I now have my girl. 

For those still looking...I wish you good luck

...but now I have Milly...I have my dreams fulfilled.