Having had a number of relationships with Slavic women and being a person of wealth, I'm used to people speaking negatively of me and my partner, questioning whether there is real romance, or if the only interest in me, is due to my wealth?

The women I'm with, are then often referred to as "Gold Diggers", which I find an interesting and stupid comment. Personally, I feel that some of these negative terms that are given to attractive women are not due to anything other than jealousy and envy. I'm sure that if the women using these terms were given the opportunity to be with a successful man and have the opportunities that I and other successful men could provide, then they would be happy to take advantage...but the fact they have not cared for their appearance, or treat the men they are with appropriately, means this is a dream that will never happen for them.

So what I want to know is do women really feel that being called a "Gold Digger" should be considered a slur...or alternatively, is this something they should consider a positive. I mean, unless romance and love hits like a lightening bolt, then why would a woman not look for a man who can support them financially and give them the life they dreamt of? While I'm not negative about love, many women have been in love and over time, love has died...leaving them with what? Maybe a child, maybe a small amount of money...but all too often, with regrets and in some cases, with debts from their previous "love".

In a world where many are counting their money from one pay day to another and the cost to warm a home, is now replacing the opportunity to holiday...at what stage does a woman say that she deserves more? 

Personally, as I engage with Slavic women, I find more are looking for something better from life. While romance and love has it's place, women want to be sure that they are not swopping one kitchen for another? Or that her man can take her for enjoyable meals, fun nights out and will be able to provide for her in terms of how she wishes to dress and present herself.

In the past, I often heard that physical beauty doesn't matter to women on these sites...instead, they look for a man with a good heart. While I don't want to appear negative...so what, will a good heart provide more than admiration? Does a good heart allow you to wear Jimmy Choo, or Chanel? Does admiration give you the chance to travel to The Maldives, or Bali?

Please do not consider this where I criticise others, or advocate money means more than anything else...but in a world where money seems to be more important than ever before, how many women on this site will still argue that this doesn't matter...and how many would embrace the title of "Gold Digger".