Author: Jay Chambers / Rich Bad Boy

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Having had a number of relationships with Slavic women over the years, I find that they are without doubt, very attractive, determined, passionate...and sexually adventurous women. 

To be degraded...disrespectful...or sexually delighting?

Having had a number of relationships with Slavic women and being a person of wealth, I'm used to people speaking negatively of me and my partner, questioning whether there is real r

Why the term "Gold Digger" should not be considered a slur!

Having had a number of relationships with Slavic women over the years, I find that they are without doubt, very attractive, determined, passionate...and sexually adventurous women. However, I wonder when a man likes to take complete control, over a woman, even to the point of choosing the clothes they wear...is this degrading and controlling, or exciting and attractive?

For example, I'm a very dominating man. I have become success in my businesses due to my aggressive and stubborn attitude, managing many staff and multiple businesses. Sometimes, I find these characteristics start to appear in my relationships. I become more demanding and my attitude is less about companionship and more about control. While I don't assume this is something all women find attractive, I do find that more women, especially younger, seem to find more excitement and interest in such a relationship.

Recently, I had a younger woman live with me. She was a confident woman, with plenty of experience, but when we started our relationship, her choice of clothing for important events became an issue for me. She seemed to insist on darker clothing choices, with higher neck and longer outfits. She also started to choose more outfits as trousers...which is an issue for me, maybe I'm old-fashioned, but I expect a woman to dress as one.

I would take this women shopping and pick up outfits that I thought made her more attractive and often, she would take a brief look and say it was not for her, without even trying it on. One day, when planning for an upcoming event with many important people, I lost my temper...I told her I wanted her to dress better and it was her choice, to either do as I asked, or remain home and I would go without her. Unsurprisingly, she was not happy, but agreed to the shopping trip.

Having entered the first shop, I quickly took a look at some beautiful dresses, most with a shorter length and lower neckline. I looked at matching shoes and accessories and initially picked a red dress and appropriate high-heels. In my mind, these would look amazing with black stockings and would go well with a Christian Dior bag, I had bought her recently. When I passed the clothes to her, she looked at me with disgust..."not for me" she said, dismissively. With immediate frustration and anger I looked at her..."put them on now!" I hissed at her. She looked at me with shock and without words, took the dress and shoes to the changing room. She came out of the room and looked amazing, her long black hair working well with the red of the dress...and the heels highlighting her amazing legs. As she looked at me, she realised that I was impressed...she looked into the mirror...and I noticed she also started to look happy at what she saw. She turned to me and accepted that I was right...and this was a better outfit. For the rest of the trip, anything I chose was tried on and for the most, we agreed on all the outfits I bought. The heels higher than she usually wore, the dresses shorter and more revealing.&nbsp;

When we returned home that evening, her attraction to me was immediate and we quickly made love in the living room, with force and aggression. After she told me how attracted she was when I lost my temper with her...and asked if I could be more forceful with her in the future. The following evening, at the event, she dressed exactly as I instructed...and without question, everyone noticed her. The comments from most were very complimentary. Some older women in the corner would complain about the length of her dress, out of jealousy and envy. I heard some men make comments about what they would like to do with my girl...which I took as a compliment...but to the woman I was with, all were very positive about her new outfit.

Following this, I began to choose her clothing more often for these events and for things important to me. I purposefully began to choose even shorter skirts and dresses, often choosing stockings, rather than pantyhose...and always the smallest underwear. I noticed this woman would become more sexual with me as I began to control her in this way...and often at events, we had to find a suitable place for fulfil our desires, or leave early. As time progressed, she would then purposefully ask me to choose clothing that was more revealing, or without suggestion, would shorten her outfit, or lower the neckline. Underwear became more of an option, than a necessity and she seemed to delight in the obvious attention from others when we went out. She became more comfortable in all ways and our sex life was amazing and just became more interesting.

As we became closer, I began to relax in my demands of her and over a couple of months, I noticed a change in her character and attitude. I spoke of her and she was honest, explaining that she preferred me to dominate her, she liked when I would degrade her and wanted me to do this constantly. She explained that in my control over her, she felt weak, but protected and this was her want in life. A couple more months and unfortunately, the relationship ended...we both accepted that we did not have the relationship that either looked for and she moved into one of the apartments I own, before entering a relationship with a man I know...a business contact, I had introduced her to in the past.&nbsp;

While still a man I do business with, he is open with me in terms of his relationship and seems to thrive in being the dominating man that I know she wanted and finds all exciting...and I wonder, is this common...is this what Slavic women would choose for their life? If a man told you to wear a shorter skirt, or go without underwear to a public event, would you feel insulted and degraded...or would this excite you?&nbsp;

Having had a number of relationships with Slavic women and being a person of wealth, I'm used to people speaking negatively of me and my partner, questioning whether there is real romance, or if the only interest in me, is due to my wealth?

The women I'm with, are then often referred to as "Gold Diggers", which I find an interesting and stupid comment. Personally, I feel that some of these negative terms that are given to attractive women are not due to anything other than jealousy and envy. I'm sure that if the women using these terms were given the opportunity to be with a successful man and have the opportunities that I and other successful men could provide, then they would be happy to take advantage...but the fact they have not cared for their appearance, or treat the men they are with appropriately, means this is a dream that will never happen for them.

So what I want to know is do women really feel that being called a "Gold Digger" should be considered a slur...or alternatively, is this something they should consider a positive. I mean, unless romance and love hits like a lightening bolt, then why would a woman not look for a man who can support them financially and give them the life they dreamt of? While I'm not negative about love, many women have been in love and over time, love has died...leaving them with what? Maybe a child, maybe a small amount of money...but all too often, with regrets and in some cases, with debts from their previous "love".

In a world where many are counting their money from one pay day to another and the cost to warm a home, is now replacing the opportunity to holiday...at what stage does a woman say that she deserves more?&nbsp;

Personally, as I engage with Slavic women, I find more are looking for something better from life. While romance and love has it's place, women want to be sure that they are not swopping one kitchen for another? Or that her man can take her for enjoyable meals, fun nights out and will be able to provide for her in terms of how she wishes to dress and present herself.

In the past, I often heard that physical beauty doesn't matter to women on these sites...instead, they look for a man with a good heart. While I don't want to appear negative...so what, will a good heart provide more than admiration? Does a good heart allow you to wear Jimmy Choo, or Chanel? Does admiration give you the chance to travel to The Maldives, or Bali?

Please do not consider this where I criticise others, or advocate money means more than anything else...but in a world where money seems to be more important than ever before, how many women on this site will still argue that this doesn't matter...and how many would embrace the title of "Gold Digger".

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