Do you feel confident enough to approach a Ukrainian girl? Confidence is one of the most important features here.
How to approach a Ukrainian girl
Start with your clothes. Renew your wardrobe. Make sure there is nothing inappropriate for your age in your wardrobe, and no old-fashioned items either. Mind your appearance. It is essential for you to be fresh, in order to feel confident in the female company. If you have face fungus you should either shave your face or keep your hair clean and fixed carefully. Besides, if you have hair on your neck and behind the ears keep them clean and fresh as well. Do not forget that being fit will also add some confidence for you as a man. Many men are shy in female companies because they do not like their body. Go in for sports, and in a few weeks, you will feel better.
Mind your posture and body language. Remember, that you should look like a gentleman, not saying about behaving like the one. Fortunately, it won’t be as difficult as you may imagine. Your goal is to look better than the average Ukrainian man for her. Thus, poor posture creates the wrong impression about you and makes you look like a shy person. Straighten your back, keep the arms in line with your body, do not gesticulate too much, and smile. Watch other people: note the way they walk, watch their body language. Pay attention to the behavior of people whom you admire, who seem attractive and successful to you.
Learn how to be polite and behave like a gentleman. If you behave rude and rough, you just alienate sexy Ukrainian women. Learn good manners and try to behave like a real gentleman, instead. Most beautiful Ukrainian girls are far from European feminists, so they will appreciate the gesture. Besides, you feel more confident, become more interesting for single Ukrainian ladies. If a girl from Ukraine notes how polite you are towards other girls, it will be a signal that you're a good guy, and she is likely to get seriously interested in you.
Things that will make a Ukrainian girl like you from the first conversation
Now, let’s consider some uncomplicated things that can be very helpful in the first communication with a Ukrainian lady.
If you think that a Ukrainian woman needs a picture of a man, you are mistaken. Psychologists, sociologists, biologists, and other scientists found out what kind of men women really like. And the answer is plain to see: a man should be of average appearance. Ukrainian women don't want vanilla beauties. As practice shows, an ordinary guy has a better chance of building a happy relationship. Too flash appearance often repels women, as well as overly well-groomed men.
Scientists conducted an amusing experiment: men were divided equally, one half of the participants was given a bag, and the other – a guitar. After that, they were sent out on the streets to get acquainted with girls. It turned out that women were three times more likely to give their phone numbers to guys with a guitar. This is easy to explain. Firstly, musicians are considered fun and cool, and secondly, on a subconscious level, the musical skills of a man are perceived by women as an indicator of intellectual ability and good heredity. So, don’t forget to take a guitar if you want to attract a Ukrainian lady!
It seems like a hackneyed cliche, but it still works. In fact, everything is quite simple: glasses add symmetry to the face and hide minor imperfections. Thus, a man looks much more attractive. In addition, sunglasses have always been associated with coolness, that's how people perceive it subconsciously. Also, dark glasses give a guy confidence and mystery. Ukrainian women love to solve riddles.
The ability to feed your woman
We have always thought that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach, but this is also true for women. It is worth noting that ladies are crazy about men who know how to cook. You don't have to be a chef, even the simplest recipes are enough to surprise a Ukrainian woman! It works rather on a subconscious level. People trust the person who gives them food or cooks for them.
People who have pets are more credible. A Ukrainian woman is more likely to draw attention to a man walking a dog than to a simple passer-by. And everything is very simple here: if you have a healthy, well-groomed dog, it speaks of your responsibility. Ukrainian ladies most often look for a man for serious relationships, and those who take good care of an animal immediately get extra points for seriousness and responsibility.
First conversation Do`s and Don`ts
So how to talk to a Ukrainian woman?
Develop your humor, if you’re not naturally humorous. Of course, it is better to be aware of all the topics that may make your Ukrainian girl irritated (including cultural peculiarities). However, if it happens so that she is annoyed, you should be able to reduce the tension. Humor is the best pill here, as it can ease the situation. Try to develop your situational humor for further hairy moments. Thus, you will be able to bounce back from an awkward situation. Another useful thing is to know how to laugh at yourself. Do not use too many smutty jokes. Do not make jokes about religion and politics, as well (especially if you are not sure about your Ukrainian girl’s views).
Choose a unique way to greet your Ukrainian girl. Most men start their conversation with some trite greetings like “Hi” or “Hey there”. Consider using a greeting in her native language like “Privetik” or choose an extraordinary greeting in English like “How is your day going?” or “How about a cup of online coffee?” Note that this tip will work out if you are chatting with your Ukrainian girl online.
Try mentioning kids. Ukrainian single women enjoy talking about kids. You may tell her both about your kids or about children in general, it does not matter. Besides, it will help you to find out her opinion on kids and family.
Ask her if she has ever thought of a perfect wedding. It is not as much about the wedding as about future plans. Ukrainian girls enjoy dreaming, especially about their future. You are very likely to see her smile if you will make her tell about her future plans.
Do not use yes-no questions. Once you have started the conversation with a Ukrainian girl, ask her a question, which will be followed by the extended answer. It does not matter actually whether you are speaking with you girl online or live. The point is that you should show her your confidence and the ability to develop the conversation even if she is shy to do it herself. Simply give her an option to respond.
Do not mention your finances either. It is not the best topic for the first date. It does not matter how much you make. Just do not mention numbers.
We have already mentioned how important is being confident while talking with cute Ukrainian girls. This brings you to another Don’t: do not show her how lonely and miserable you are. Even if you feel depressed, you Ukrainian girl is not your personal psychologist yet (she may become the one if you manage to make her your wife).
Do not tell your Ukrainian girl about your ex-girlfriends. Just think how you would react if she starts telling you about her ex-boyfriends’ pros and cons! It is unpleasant, isn’t it? By the way, this one includes sexual experience. The first date is not the best time to speak
Do not discuss any health issues. It won’t bring anything positive to your conversation. Another thing is health in general. It is not a crime to mention about healthy lifestyle or something. The key thing is that it should not sound as boasting.
Food. Starting from family dinners and to your grandmother's pies and your favorite dishes. You may discuss exotic seafood, good cafes, barbecues, etc. Invite to your favorite cafe or take her out of town for the weekend. It will be quite logical in this case.
Cinema is a universal topic. Start with the question: “Have you been in the cinema?” Find out what she enjoys watching, whether she enjoys late sessions or day ones. Talk about recent first runs and invite her to watch one of these new movies. Here you are, the trick is done!
Hobbies. Let’s say, you roller skate, or collect stamps. In the first case, after a short conversation, you may offer her to skate together. If she does not know how to do it, promise to teach her. In the second case, tell her a romantic story about with your favorite stamp and invite her to see the collection. Do not forget to ask what she is interested in during the conversation, and give her enough time to tell about it. Do not interrupt your Ukrainian lady.
Literature. Does she love reading? If yes, go ahead. Ask what was the last book she read? What is her favorite Ukrainian writer? Does she know if there is a translation of her favorite book of a Ukrainian author? Make her feel that you are really interested in what she loves. Tell about you enjoy reading.
Bad habits. It is better to talk about “cute” things here: the habit of being late all the time, losing pens and pencils, or vice versa - without noticing it, to find new pens stolen from your friends unintentionally. The main thing you should make the conversation positive and fun.
Cars. Ask if she drives a car. If not, would she like to? What cars does she like? How else kind of transport would she like to use in her city (a spaceship or an armored personnel carrier) Share your thoughts about the car of your dreams.
Pets. Does she have a cat, a dog, a rat, a fish, a parrot? Praise! Imagine what would your iguana pet and her hamster doing together and share your thoughts about it.