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Hello. I don't know where to start my story! Maybe it's better to start by asking a question. Have any of you ever experienced true love? Of course, everyone thinks that the relatio

My strange story!

I don't follow any rules in the first meeting. And when I see you and shake hands with you, we sit on both sides of the same table and I order two teas (I hope you like tea too beca

Propose on the first meeting

I wrote this story under the category of "memories of youth" because this story is my experience of my personal experiences in my youth.

I love myself next to you!

A beautiful face, a beautiful body, you look at it and feel that you are looking at it in love. But why are you looking at it? Do you want to get something out of it? Then it is lus

Love is not lust!

I think Men are very weak in sex, because they can only have one ejaculation, but women can have multiple ejaculations. A man's ejaculation is limited to his genitals, but a woman's

The Art of ForPlay

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Hello. I don't know where to start my story! Maybe it's better to start by asking a question. Have any of you ever experienced true love? Of course, everyone thinks that the relationship they are in is true love! But I mean the love that you have felt with all your flesh, skin and bones.But let me tell you the story of my life, this is the first place where I write my story, maybe because I don't know you and you don't know me!When I was young, like most of my peers, I was involved in promiscuous relationships, and of course, I don't need to say where they ended up. At the age of 27, my last relationship with a girl I stayed with for 3 years ended, and after that I never got into a relationship again. In addition, I was diagnosed with phagophobia disorder (fear of swallowing solids), which caused me to withdraw from my family, friends and society. I was suffering from this disease for eight years, and my food was only liquids (8 glasses of cocoa milk a day). During these years, I did not intend to have a relationship with any girl, both because of the bitter experiences I had and because of my disease, which completely occupied me. . In the seventh year of my illness, I met a girl by chance. A girl I had never met before. We used to talk for hours without getting tired, about everything: philosophy, politics, poetry and literature and everyday events. At first, she just was a very good friend for me, a full-fledged teacher, until after a few months I felt that I liked her. I expressed my love to her, but she said that she is not suitable for me. When I asked the reason, I found out that she is one of conjoined twins who were separated during a surgery when they were children.(,in Germany/1985) They were attached to each other from the heart area and after the separation operation, she had a big heart on the right side, which in addition to the problems it had by it's self, caused the lack of development of the lungs, which caused her to have breathing problems at times. But despite knowing this, I loved her, even more when I realized that she had suffered a lot since childhood. The description of the sufferings she endured during her life is detailed and it hurts the heart of every human being. And strangely, her parents They had died before her while the doctors thought she would die as a child (life is not predictable at all). Our love started, unfortunately, she died and I felt like a piece of my soul was separated, and I could never be the person I was before. My illness improved a year after her death, and a few months after my recovery, my father suffered a stroke and became paralyzed, and now I have been taking care of him 24 hours a day for 4 years!(I think a movie can be made about the strange life of me and my wife) Now, during these years, I always think about how I experienced love very accidentally. What are the prerequisites for experiencing true love? Maybe I can conclude that love appears when it takes your hand and takes you into its kingdom when:

1- You have experienced useless relationships and endured their suffering

2- You are used to being alone and you even enjoy it.

3_ When you are not madly looking for love. 

I think it is not us who find love, it is love who finds us. (When the student is ready, the master appears)I told this story to know your experiences and opinion. Have you ever experienced pure love? In what circumstances? And most importantly, do you think you can fall in love twice? Or do you think we only have one soul mate?Finally, let me say that every pleasure in this world is mixed with pain. Every gain has a loss. But even when we lose our lover, that love never ends. It may seem exaggerated, but if our existence in this world has only one purpose, it is to experience love.In Farsi, we have many poems that refer to the same issue. Thank you for reading my story. I hope you are not bored

I don't follow any rules in the first meeting. And when I see you and shake hands with you, we sit on both sides of the same table and I order two teas (I hope you like tea too because I never drink coffee or alcoholic drinks)

On the other side of the table, I notice that you are not wearing a bra and your prominent nipples are visible. Before the tea comes and away from the eyes of others, I will press your nipple with two fingers. You might be shocked or embarrassed, or you might even love it. I see shame, satisfaction and excitement in your eyes at the same time. You are a little confused and this confusion of yours fascinates me more.

We drink tea and walk a little. We reach the beach. The sun is setting. Again my eyes fall on your nipples. This time you take my hand and put it on them. I don't know if you enjoy this touch or if you are just trying to please me. But when your hand is on my hand and my hand is on your breasts, I feel oneness with you. And I expect you to understand this. Are you asking me why I like breasts so much? My mind gets confused and I try to give a clear reason for it!

what can i say Should I say that this is the result of evolution in men? Or because I lost my mother when I was a child and never touched her warm embrace? I say it because I feel that the second one is closer to the truth.

Your face is full of motherly love, you hold my head and press it to your breasts and let my head come into contact with those soft breasts. It's like you want to make up for that loss in my childhood. I want to tell you that I feel safe in your arms like a child, I want to say that let your man be weak sometimes. I'm tired of being strong for so many years. I know you're looking for a man to lean on. But let me be weak in your arms sometimes, but I don't know why it doesn't flow. You nod as if you understood what I said without saying it.

I separate myself from your arms. I tell you, I want my future wife to be not just my wife, not just a passionate woman in bed. She is my best friend and sometimes she is a spoiled little girl.

You shake your head. I don't know if you agree with my words or just because you did something.

I ask you, will you marry me? You say oh how soon! In the first meeting.

I say yes, why not? Our life is passing quickly. You have experienced failed relationships before and enough of your life has been wasted, and I have also fallen in love once and got married and my wife died and I know how to treat you.

You don't know what to say. I will squeeze your nipples again. It makes you laugh. I ask, am I enough for you with this small size, good nature and sense of responsibility? You say yes, I think!

 . I pull you to me, you slowly release yourself in my arms. I ask, isn't my hug small for you with this weak size? You say no!

 I kiss your forehead. I say let's not waste our lives. Maybe not tomorrow...

I know you understand this. During this war, you have understood very well that there may be no tomorrow.

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I often think about human relationships. As someone who has experienced many useless relationships in his youth and has tasted true love once, let me write a few lines about this.&nbsp;&nbsp;
First, when we say to someone, I love you, it means: "I love myself next to you." That's why we feel light and happy when we are in a love relationship because we are next to someone. which gives us a good feeling and makes us love ourselves. . When we love ourselves, life becomes more beautiful in our eyes and it is as if a burden has been lifted from our shoulders. Of course, I've found that this is true not only of romantic relationships, but of many other things as well. For example, when we say "I enjoy Paris" it means "I enjoy myself in Paris" or when we say "I enjoy walking" it means "I enjoy myself while walking"&nbsp;
This point is more pronounced in love relationships. Suppose I am in a relationship with a woman. She tells me, "You are my love," "You are my life," "You are my soul." By saying these words, she creates an identity for us, and we enjoy that identity. The lover gives identity to the lover. We like to have identity. This is the reason why people are looking for money, prestige, social status, emotional relationships and forming a family. Because these become part of our identity anyway. Of course, I am not rich and I do not have a social status to be able to judge how much their influence is on our identity. . But I have been in love. My wife and I were really in love with each other and after her death, I was hit hard.&nbsp;
As I said, the lover gives identity to the beloved and that is why we feel identityless when we are betrayed.&nbsp;
Suppose a person has been in a relationship many times and has been betrayed and failed many times. After some time, he will have an identity crisis. And this identity crisis scares him, and every time he wants to enter into a new relationship, he feels that a sign has been installed above that relationship, which has written the expiration date of that relationship.&nbsp;
Or, for example, I have thought a lot about why some men or women cheat despite having a good and beautiful partner. One reason is diversity. When we start a new relationship, there is a lot of excitement at first. We are curious, we love excitement, we love to discover. We love to experience new things. New relationships and new bodies are attractive to us, but when we think we've discovered them, it's like we're done and we have to move on to the next project.&nbsp;&nbsp; Suppose a man gets married and after a while he feels that he knows all about his wife , and there is nothing new to discover, and this may make him bored and start looking for a new relationship, and that relationship then After a short period of time, it makes him bored and then another new relationship. And of course, I have understood that those who are addicted to diversity are not at peace and are more prone to identity crisis.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;
We must discover this bug in ourselves to end this vicious circle somewhere.&nbsp;
We must understand that every day there is something new in our wives/husbands that we can discover. Just as after years of living with our parents or siblings or friends we suddenly find out that there is something in them that we have not discovered before. Our soul is infinite.&nbsp;
We should try to make love our essence. Love does not need a perfect beloved. We can claim that we have learned to love when we don't have the feeling that if I were with another woman instead of this woman, I would feel happier. These are all illusions. It is a trick of the mind.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;
When we have entered into a relationship with a woman or started a family, we should never think that it was possible&nbsp; that we would have found a better case. We must believe that she is the best wife we ever could have.

If you want to test yourself whether you are ready for a stable relationship or not! Think about whether you are looking for someone with specific characteristics? Or are you ready to give love to anyone whom is ready to get it? Regardless of how old is she? How tall is she? What color is her hair? What is the color of her eyes? Or what is the size of her breasts?lol&nbsp;&nbsp;
If you are looking for a beloved with special characteristics to make love, maybe you should reconsider a little.&nbsp;&nbsp;
Believe that you are honestly and sincerely ready to love and then give yourself up fate!

A beautiful face, a beautiful body, you look at it and feel that you are looking at it in love. But why are you looking at it? Do you want to get something out of it? Then it is lust and not love. Do you want to take advantage of it? Then it is lust and not love. Then actually, you think about how to use that body, how to take possession of it, how to make that body a tool for your own pleasure.Lust means:How to use someone for your own pleasure. Love means :another's pleasure is preferable.In fact, lust is how you get something from him/her, and love is how you give something to him/her... these two are exactly the opposite.If you see a beautiful face and feel love for that face, your immediate feeling in your consciousness will be what to do to please this face, how to please&nbsp; this woman. Here you are not important, the other is important.In love, the other is important;In lust, you are important.In "lust" you think of making another the means of your pleasure; In "love" you think about how to become a tool yourself for another's pleasureIn lust, you sacrifice another;In love, you sacrifice yourself.Love means how to give ;Lust means&nbsp; how to get

Love is a surrender;Lust is an invasion..Whenever you look at something lovingly, that "thing" becomes a person. And the opposite is also true. Whenever you look at someone with lustful eyes, that person becomes an object. That is why sensual eyes are repulsive and stinging. Because no one wants to become an object.When you look at a woman with lustful eyes, she will feel offended.What do you actually do?You change a person, a living person, into a dead subject. You figure out how to "use" and that person is killed. That is why sensual eyes are repulsive and ugly.When you look at someone with love, the other becomes exalted. She becomes unique. Suddenly she becomes a person. A person cannot be replaced by another, but objects can be replaced.A "thing" means something that can be replaced; But a "person" means something that cannot be replaced, it is not possible that you can replace her with someone else.A person is unique and unique it. not like that...And this oneness, this personhood, happens through love.If there is a romantic relationship, everything becomes a person.If there is a lustful relationship , then the person becomes an object.And this is one of the most inhumane things a human can do: turning a person into an object.Many people think they know what love is, but they don't. Many trappists advise couples to have more sex for more intimacy. But if there is no love, sex is just physical gymnastics. When there is no love, you have sex but you are still thirsty. Maybe some of you who are reading this story are divorced women, single mothers and generally non-virgin girls who have experienced it.When you are not deeply in a true love , you are always feel thirsty. You think something&nbsp; is missing and that may is&nbsp; "more sex", you try to have more sex but you get more thirsty.But when you are in love, even the pure presence of your beloved is enough for you!. Never think of love as sex, or you will be deceived.Only when you feel the presence of another, only her pure presence, not anything else, only her presence is enough to make you feel happy; Something starts to bloom in you.Only when you are in true love.be aware ...Love is not lust.Emotions and feelings are not fleeting.Love is not ownership.Love is a deep understanding that the other somehow completes you.Someone makes you a full circle

I think Men are very weak in sex, because they can only have one ejaculation, but women can have multiple ejaculations. A man's ejaculation is limited to his genitals, but a woman's ejaculation is not, and she can have a beautiful experience of ejaculation that is thousands of times bigger, deeper, richer and more nourishing than a man's experience, but a woman's whole body must be aroused. But many men are not interested in this matter, in forplay!Unfortunately, many men have used women as a sex machine to satisfy their sexual tension, men's ejaculation does not take more than a few seconds! When the woman has not yet started, the man's sex is finished and he goes to sleep. Sex helps him to have a good sleep, but the woman is not satisfied yet, it can even be said that she has not yet started, she has not moved, she only has been used.In order to make a woman share the experience of ejaculation, a man must learn the art of forplay , he must not rush to go to bed, he must turn forplay into a delicate art. You should create a temple of love at home, where incense burns and the lights are not bright and only a few candles are lit. Then a man should start forplay like a painter paints, like a poet writes poetry, or a musician plays. A woman's body should be considered like a musical instrument.forplay must have a state of holiness, because until you make foreplay holy, nothing else in ordinary life will be holy.In some cultures, it is forbidden for a man to lie on top of a woman during forplay and sex, because the man is heavier and more muscular, and the woman is compressed under the man, her mobility is limited and only the man moves, so the man ejaculates within a few seconds. When the woman is on top, she is more mobile and the man is less mobile, and this makes their ejaculates closer together, and when they both experience ejaculation, it is an experience from another world. which is called divine connection or "Samdhi"A woman has the capacity to have several ejaculations in a row, so a man should move as slowly as possible and delay ejaculation, but unfortunately, men are in a hurry in everything, which ruins the relationship. The man's ejaculation should take place when the woman has reached the peak of her arousal.I am very fond of&nbsp; forplay. I like to touch and smell a woman's body inch by inch, caress her hair, smell and kiss her neck, touch her arms, even smell and kiss her armpits (lol) and while she is in top i am going to touch her breasts very slowly and start squeezing and pressing the nipples and playing with her navel a little and caressing her back for a .I want our breasts to be in contact&nbsp; . I wish&nbsp; touch the softness of her breasts with all my heart for a long time. , then when she's at the height of her arousal and ready&nbsp; go down ,Although I'm still in no rush for it .lol

This is just an easy explanation of one of the mistakes that many women make on dating sites, which is not reading men's profiles.

Maybe women think that by sending a bunch of pre-written messages to men, they are increasing their chances of finding a suitable man, when it is quite the opposite.For me, it's very convenient to know which message was sent in bulk and the sender didn't even read my name. These messages usually start with hello dear, hello lion, hello my future husband and so on, without the name of the addressee.

Some other letters have the recipient's name at the beginning, but when you read the content, you realize that the sender has not read your profile.

 see, two groups of women can easily ignored, while maybe they thought that by sending mass letters to men, they would receive more reactions and as a result, their chances of finding a man would increase. So instead of wasting your energy on something that is counterproductive. It is better to focus on a few profiles, read their contents carefully and then write a letter that will convey to the audience that you first read their profile carefully and then came to the decision to write a letter to the owner of the profile. Otherwise, you will be easily ignored even if you are very beautiful and successful!I don't think any man wants to marry a woman who doesn't even take the time to read a profile!

Believe me, not all the men on this site are American, believe me, not all the men on this site are western. As all the women on this site are not Ukrainian and Russian

Thank you in advance for reading men's profiles!<br>

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